Easing up emotional armor is no cake walk. Some people are so set in their ways, there’s no hope of them easing up. But other people with a sense of nature still in them know there’s more to life. It’s lucky the force of life is so strong that even when people’s emotional armor is so tight that you might think of calling it “anti-life” instead of “armor,” still the huge natural power and warmth of life energy has a chance of easing up that frozen structure.
A person needs an outside boost of life energy from someone who’s free of emotional armor nearby, right close to them, to let the glow of their energy run over onto them and add to their own life energy, so it has a fair chance of easing up the anti-life and maybe some of their logjam. A therapist with unarmored eyes can guide the person struggling for health through all the twisted maze of their destructive influences and sort out the healthy and good parts, while at the same time not giving the anti-life a chance. If they work together carefully, life energy can melt frozen armor so it stays melted and not an obstacle. The person easing up their armor can use the unarmored therapist’s energy like reinforcements for battling anti-life with good, clear-seeing life.
There’s talk involved, but the most powerful part is silent. You might not think it, but even ordinary talking can block life energy. Useless chitchat protects people from stirring up their way of life. Sometimes a body has to pipe down and stand some quiet if they want half a chance of easing up their armor. Other talk, like a therapist’s comment that goes to the heart of the matter, can sometimes change a person’s whole life.